What has happened to people? It seems the world has gone insane!! What happened to people being open & honest? What happened to LOYALTY? People don’t care how they treat others. People lie,keep secrets,betray. Which in turn kills the trust & unfortunately the people you betray get hurt so much that they struggle to trust & let peole in again causing a ripple effect of more people playing games, hurting others & themselves. Why this selfishness? Why the hatred towards your fellow man? Why the cheating & games? Why the lies,secrets & betrayal when everyone knows lies & secrets Always,Always come out!
I don’t have many people in my life because of the betrayal, heartbreak,emotional,mental & physical abuse I’ve endured. I try to choose wisely but, unfortunately I tend to give everyone the benefit of the doubt which most of the time has taught me I shouldn’t. I need to seriously listen to my intuition because it has never be wrong but, I always give people a chance to come clean & make right but,in turn I get terribly hurt because most of the time they don’t do it themselves & that hurts more than them actually coming clean on their own!!
I am now trying very hard to get my walls up again & not trust like I used to. Why is it the good people are always the ones that get hurt & betrayed? Why can’t people just be true to themselves & others? Be genuine is all I ask.
When I love, I love with all that I am.” I love you” are extremely important & precious words that should NEVER be used if that is not what you truly feel. I will Never say that if I don’t truly mean it. Unfortunately people use it to get their way even if it means hurting others in the process.
Promises – people don’t make promises if you don’t truly mean them. If you make a promise you need to stick to it. So many people make promises & continously break them destroying the people you are making the promises to & breaking them.
Why is it that people cheat on partners who do anything for them,live for them & give them their all? If you’re in a relationship, the opposite sex should not be in your life at all!, be it social media or private. The betrayal of having the opposite sex in your life & the secret messages which are kept secret because apparently they don’t want to cause problems – well NONE of that should be happening at all!! If you are keeping it secret then you know it’s wrong so why do it?? If you need the opposite sex so much then rather be single and you can have as many as you want anytime,don’t get into a relationship where your partner gives their all & you aren’t willing to give it back. What you expect from your partner is exactly what you should be doing!
The excuse it’s just social media also doesn’t work as it’s still life & opening unnecessary doors. The chatting & social media likes,etc,exchanging numbers & chatting privately,etc are all Huge No-nos – all keeping the door to temptation open & giving those people hope & in turn hurting the one person who loves you more than words could explain & would do everything & anything for you. Who will stand by you through think & thin – no matter what!! Is having the opposite sex so important that you are taking a chance to loose the greatest love you will ever have??? Why,why are you giving your number out to the opposite sex?? Why??? If you’re in a relationship you most Definitely should not be giving your number at all!!!! Giving your number is an invitation to the opposite sex & giving them hope of something happening that is why people exchange numbers. Seriously!!! You should immediately let people know you are in a committed relationship!! People don’t exchange numbers just because, there is hope there of something further. People don’t ask about your relationship status if they aren’t interested & hoping.
People please think!!! All your actions have consequences for you & the people involved. Think of what is important,is what you want to do or what you are doing worth it?? Carry on with deceit,lies,secrets,hatred,using people,hurting people you will end up loosing in the end…. be it your relationship or friendship – YOU will loose & know that Karma is real & karma will give you what you have handed out 3 x fold. I’ve seen karma at work & believe me its not nice!