BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER…..

Really?

Do you honestly believe that?

Through years of heartache and experience I have found that blood is NOT thicker than water!

The people who stand by your side, have your best interests at heart are not family, they are the people whose paths cross yours throughout your life.

Those are the special people whether they are there for a reason, a season or a life time they stand by you and help you through without judgement.

Family judge and criticise no matter what. You try your whole life to please them and do what makes them happy forgetting about yourself only to make sure you still have your family in your life.

Then the day happens that you realise your life is passing you by and you have never been truly happy, you choose your happiness. Unfortunately what brings you love and happiness doesn’t go with what your family wants or agrees with and you get kicked to the side as if you never existed!!

I will choose the people that come into my life for the reasons, seasons or lifetimes over the people who share my dna, who are supposed to have your back through thick and thin, whether they agree or not. There is definately NO such thing as Blood being thicker than water!

It cuts deep, so so deep daily that they will push you aside as if you don’t exist because they don’t agree with the decision you have made that gives you so so much joy and unconditional love!

What I thought a family is is obviously a fairytale. Aren’t they supposed to be there no matter what? Isn’t your happiness important? Isn’t family supposed to have unconditional love for one another?

SELFISH, SO SO SELFISH!!!

They don’t agree….. You don’t exist!!!